Curse of Beauty

Fatai Ayeloja
Nov 10, 2021

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You are beautiful and attractive

The attention you are getting is messing you up

Attention does not equate to good intentions

For every major gift comes with huge responsibilities

Getting lots of attention from the wrong person can be quite overwhelming

Can be quite dangerous

Getting attention from everywhere is one thing

Being able to manage the attention for good is another

When a gift is not a disposable level of income gift

Know that it comes with a request at the end

Most of the time, it is not a palatable request to the stomach

So it’s better to set boundaries from the start of a relationship as you did with me.

It’s much safe that way

Beauty can be a blessing and also curse

All depends on how you manage the attention you are getting

Most relationships over here are transactional

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Fatai Ayeloja

I write about my journey as an adult lifestyle, love for tech and sometime just vibes